In many marriages today, when one mate does not express emotions, the other partner exists in a world, of loneliness, disappointment, and disrespect. If there is little opportunity to communicate thoughts and feelings, the unloved mate believes the only choices are to resign them self to living in an unsatisfying relationship or decide to become one more divorce statistic. Living with someone that is emotionally unavailable is a very common but subtle form of disrespect, often misunderstood, and a devastating problem that is hard to identify with little known solutions- until now.

This seminar is for those relationships where the lack of emotions, love, and respect continues despite the repeated efforts to change the relationship through prayer, waiting, complaining, loving, and traditional counseling.  This seminar candidly addresses how the lack of emotion destroys the ability to have heart-felt love and respect in a relationship and provides radical solutions to bring the emotions, love, and respect back into the relationship.  The seminar provides new insights, individual stories, inspiring scriptures, and powerful techniques to learn the following:

   In this seminar you will learn: 

1. Learn how a person becomes unemotional.

2. Learn how an unemotional mate can learn to emotionally relate.

3. How the emotional mate can be empower to: respond differently to the unemotional mate; overcome the frustration from living with the stubborn attitudes of a selfish mate; and how to change the unemotional mate without the emotional mate loosing his/her own heart and mind in the process. 

4. Learn how each partner can get the emotion, love, respect, and attention they deserve (and always wanted); learn how to develop a healthy relationship; stop feeling alone and dissatisfied in the relationship; and learn how to communicate thoughts and feelings without arguing and defensiveness.

   In this seminar you will learn: 

A. Why emotions are important

B.  Characteristics of an unemotional person.

C. What effects does the unemotional mate have on others?

D.  How and why a person cannot express emotions

E.  What happens when feelings become suppressed or blocked?

F.  Therapeutic techniques to break through the denial

            1. Developing a rapport

            2. Self discovery- learning how past affects the present

            3. Explaining the child/parent connection

            4. Giving the client permission to have emotions

            5. Self discovery- learning pattern of dysfunctional emotions

            7. Breaking through blocked emotions

                        a. Mind, body, spiritual connection

                        b. Natural solution to unblock suppressed emotions  

   In this seminar you will learn:

 1. How does a man communicate his feelings differ from how a woman communicates her feelings?

2. How important is communicating feelings- even when you have feelings of hurt from your mate?

3. How much do my feelings affect the ability to find and maintain healthy relationships – even a healthy relationship with God?  (Why do I have a hard time getting close to people and to God?)

4. Does that mean learning to identify and express our feelings can influence our ability to have closer relationships- even with God?

5. How can you begin to express your feelings if you’re in a relationship where you are discouraged to express your feelings or say what is on your mind?  (Is this called disrespect?)

6. What is disrespect and how do you handle disrespect from others (including your spouse)?

7. What to do if you’re in a relationship where your spouse does not communicate their feelings.

8. Maintaining healthy relationships – even with God.

   Ideal for:  Church pulpit supply for AM or PM worship services          

This multimedia presentation gives a message of hope and spiritual healing through scripture, music, congregation participation, visual props, and helpful techniques.  Learn to overcome the fear to say what you want, let go of emotional hurts, find satisfaction in relationships (even with God), find the joy of Christ, and feel good about yourself!   

Hear valuable insights, powerful case testimonies, inspiring scriptures, and helpful techniques to overcome the fear to say what you want, let go of emotional hurts, find satisfaction in relationships, find the joy of Christ, and feel good about yourself!  This inspirational message based on God’s Word is for teens through older adults who desire to find victory from the daily struggles of life to experience the love, peace, and joy that God has to offer.

This inspirational message, based on God’s Word, is for teens through older adults who desire to find victory from the daily struggles of life to experience the love, peace, and joy that God has to offer.  The presentation is ideal for Christian groups or a Sunday AM or PM church service (travel distance is a factor in availability).

   In this seminar you will learn:

   Learning how to feel good about life and experience the inner joy that

   Jesus has to offer?

1. Why our God given emotions are so important. 

2. What would happen if I don’t express my feelings? 

3. Or can holding in feelings over time be harmful to my emotional/physical health?

4. If God gave us our emotions, what stops us from feeling them? 

5. How does our past influence us with our reactions?  (Reactions of anger, fear, anxiety, or depression)

6. As a Christian, are we suppose to have anger, fear, or anxiety? 

(Some people believe you are not depending on God if you experience those feelings.) 

7. How can we change to find and maintain the inner joy that God really wants us to experience?